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Elliott Holmes Memorial Fund

Email: support@ehmf.org.uk

Rapid access to Mental Health Counselling
for Young People in Gravesham
– a volunteer led organisation

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Young Person Self-Referral Application Form

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Use this form if you are a young person seeking help. This form MUST ONLY be completed by the Young Person. Referrals from other parties will be rejected. Please note: we do not have the capacity to take on conditions related to eating disorders or Young People who have been adopted. We DO NOT offer counselling at your school or home.

There is lots of useful advice covering common issues which we hope you will find useful

Please confirm the following:

Please read the counsellors profiles before proceeding. Subject to availability, we will endeavour to allocate you your chosen counsellor once selected in the 'Your counselling choices' section below. If you're not sure which counsellor(s) to choose then select based on location and how they deliver their counselling e.g. Face-to-face, Zoom, WhatsApp.(Required)
Please read the counsellors profiles before proceeding. Subject to availability, we will endeavour to allocate you your chosen counsellor once selected in the 'Your counselling choices' section below. If you're not sure which counsellor(s) to choose then select based on location and how they deliver their counselling e.g. Face-to-face, Zoom, WhatsApp.

Personal details

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PLEASE USE CAPS and style like this: DA12 4YG Your address will be kept confidential.
This is a SELF_REFERRAL and therefore must be YOUR OWN personal mobile (NOT your parents or guardian). We will use this number to contact you, NOT YOUR PARENTS.
If you do not hear from us via text within a few days it will be because your mobile number has been entered incorrectly. Please provide an email if you have one so we can still contact you!
Your parent or guardian DOES NOT need to know for you to acccess support. Your referral will remain confidential unless a serious safeguarding issue becomes apparent at anytime during your counselling sessions.
This is how your counsellor will make contact with you in the first instance.

Emergency contact details

EHMF and/or your counsellor will need to have the details of someone (over the age of 18) that can be contacted in case an emergency arises. This does not need to be a parent or carer but it does need to be someone who knows you well. This could be a friend, family member or a school teacher. The counsellor can explain this more during the first session.
This must be the Emergency Contact's mobile number, NOT your own. They will only be contacted if an emergency arises. Your referral will be treated in confidence. If you enter your own number, the referral will be rejected.

School information

This information is for data purposes only and will NOT be shared with your school

Please Note: All St.George's School referrals are currently on hold. Please DO NOT submit this form. Refer back to your school pastoral support for further assistance. If you are in crisis, click on the red tab to the left of this page for emergency numbers.

Medical details

IMPORTANT REMINDER - We are not a crisis service. If you need urgent help, please click on the red NEED EMERGENCY HELP tab located on the left side of this page and use the contact information provided

Your counselling choices

Please note, all face-to-face counselling sessions are delivered on the counsellor's premises. We DO NOT offer counselling on school premises. Please ensure you select a counsellor in a location where you can make your own arrangements for transport.
(see Counsellors page)*
(must be different than 1st choice)*
Please check your chosen counsellor offers this type of counselling. You will need to make your own travel arrangements for face-to-face appointments.
Please indicate availability by checking the box
Please note: Your availability may affect the choice of counsellor you are offered
Tick any boxes which may relate to your situation
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VERY IMPORTANT! Before you click submit, please double check your mobile number. Make sure it has 11 digits, starts with 07 and is correct. The same goes for the emergency number you have given us. Without the correct number you will not hear from us!

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Latest News

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    For a second year, we’ve been honoured by their unwavering support.

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    It’s people like Dave and James and everyone who supports these quiz nights that changes the narrative.

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    PLA’s support will allow us to help some of the most vulnerable young people in Gravesham.

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    Suzi and her team ran a number of events and raffles throughout the year, raising an incredible £8,700.

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Need Emergency Help?

Elliott Holmes Memorial Fund is a counselling funding service, NOT an emergency support service.

If you are feeling suicidal contact
Samaritans 24/7  on 116 123,
or visit your nearest A&E.

Alternatively, you can:
Text SHOUT on 85258, or call
PAPYRUS on 0800 068 4141
9am-12 midnight every day of the year.

Young people up to the age of 18 can call
Childline on 0800 1111

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